STEFAY'S

The color of my heart is black

It was burnt to black, just like that

I break glass whenever i feel like

and i look at my bloody hands and think, why am i like this

Your smile is shining gold

but the way you speak, feel so cold

as time goes by, you're becoming like me

sometimes i feel like karma is chasing after me

The real name of love is definitely hatred

hope is the parent of disappointment and despair

why didn't i know that the shadow that has casted over my face

was created from the light called, you

It has been a while since the time between you and i have stopped

misunderstanding is always the cause of pain

well i don't even know myself

so my hope for you to know me is a misunderstanding itself

People smile with an effort, hiding the truth

as if they're happy

while hiding in the lie

in the world of love

as if it will be forever

The color of gloomy world is black

the begining and end change, black and white

people are cunning, sometime become delusional

really why am i like this, why

Those lips are red

just like red lies

as time goes by, the language between the two

the colors that each one has don't mesh

The real name of love is definitely hatred

hope is the parent of disappointment and despair

why didn't i know that the shadow that has casted over my face

was created from the light called, you

Since i've met you agony is the only thing left

everyday is series of hills of hardships and temptation

now i sing of breaking up, i tell you

this is my last confession

People smile with an effort, hiding the truth

as if they're happy

while hiding in the lie

in the world of love

as if it will be forever

Someday when i'm left at the edge of the world alone

i might miss you, yeah

Someday when i'm tamed to the edge of sadness

i might regret at the end

I'm going to go back to the way i came from,black

the summer when you and i were hot

it's been too long

fade away

LOVE IS NOT A RELATIONSHIP. Love relates, but it is not a relationship. A relationship is something finished. A relationship is a noun; the full stop has come, the honeymoon is over. Now there is no joy, no enthusiasm, now all is finished. You can carry it on, just to keep your promises. You can carry it on because it is comfortable, convenient, cozy. You can carry it on because there is nothing else to do. You can carry it on because if you disrupt it, it is going to create much trouble for you… Relationship means something complete, finished, closed.

Love is never a relationship; love is relating. It is always a river, flowing, unending. Love knows no full stop; the honeymoon begins but never ends. It is not like a novel that starts at a certain point and ends at a certain point. It is an ongoing phenomenon. Lovers end, love continues– it is a continuum. It is a verb, not a noun.

And why do we reduce the beauty of relating to relationship? Why are we in such a hurry? Because to relate is insecure, and relationship is a security. Relationship has a certainty; relating is just a meeting of two strangers, maybe just an overnight stay and in the morning we say goodbye. Who knows what is going to happen tomorrow? And we are so afraid that we want to make it certain, we want to make it predictable. We would like tomorrow to be according to our ideas; we don't allow it freedom to have its own say. So we immediately reduce every verb to a noun.

You are in love with a woman or a man and immediately you start thinking of getting married. Make it a legal contract. Why? How does the law come into love? The law comes into love because love is not there. It is only a fantasy, and you know the fantasy will disappear. Before it disappears settle down, before it disappears do something so it becomes impossible to separate.

in a better world, with more meditative people, with a little more enlightenment spread over the earth, people will love, love immensely, but their love will remain a relating not a relationship. And I am not saying that their love will be only momentary. There is every possibility their love may go deeper than your love, may have a higher quality of intimacy, may have something more of poetry and more of godliness in it. And there is every possibility their love may last longer than your so-called relationship ever lasts. But it will not be guaranteed by the law, by the court, by the policeman. The guarantee will be inner. It will be a commitment from the heart, it will be a silent communion.

If you enjoy being with somebody, you would like to enjoy it more and more. If you enjoy the intimacy, you would like to explore the intimacy more and more. And there are a few flowers of love which bloom only after long intimacies. There are seasonal flowers too; within six weeks they are there, in the sun, but within six weeks again they are gone forever. There are flowers that take years to come, and there are flowers that take many years to come. The longer it takes, the deeper it goes. But it has to be a commitment from one heart to another heart. It has not even to be verbalized, because to verbalize it is to profane it. It has to be a silent commitment; eye to eye, heart to heart, being to being. It has to be understood, not said.

Forget relationships and learn how to relate.

Once you are in a relationship you start taking each other for granted– that's what destroys all love affairs. The woman thinks she knows the man, the man thinks he knows the woman. Nobody knows either! It is impossible to know the other, the other remains a mystery. And to take the other for granted is insulting, disrespectful.

To think that you know your wife is very, very ungrateful. How can you know the woman? How can you know the man? They are processes, they are not things. The woman that you knew yesterday is not there today. So much water has gone down the Ganges; she is somebody else, totally different. Relate again, start again, don't take it for granted.

And the man that you slept with last night, look at his face again in the morning. He is no more the same person, so much has changed. So much, incalculably much has changed. That is the difference between a thing and a person. The furniture in the room is the same, but the man and the woman, they are no more the same. Explore again, start again. That's what I mean by relating.

Relating means you are always starting, you are continuously trying to become acquainted. Again and again, you are introducing yourself to each other. You are trying to see the many facets of the other's personality. You are trying to penetrate deeper and deeper into his realm of inner feelings, into the deep recesses of his being. You are trying to unravel a mystery which cannot be unraveled. That is the joy of love: the exploration of consciousness.

And if you relate, and don't reduce it to a relationship, then the other will become a mirror to you. Exploring him, unawares you will be exploring yourself too. Getting deeper into the other, knowing his feelings, his thoughts, his deeper stirrings, you will be knowing your own deeper stirrings too. Lovers become mirrors to each other, and then love becomes a meditation. Relationship is ugly, relating is beautiful.

Hence I say relate. By saying relate, I mean remain continuously on a honeymoon. Go on searching and seeking each other, finding new ways of loving each other, finding new ways of being with each other. And each person is such an infinite mystery, inexhaustible, unfathomable, that it is not possible that you can ever say, "I have known her," or, "I have known him." At the most you can say, "I have tried my best, but the mystery remains a mystery."

In fact the more you know, the more mysterious the other becomes. Then love is a constant adventure.

- osho

Hello guys, kali ini gue mau sedikit bercerita dan berbagi tentang keindahan pulau Lombok, NTB. Bagi sebagian orang, Lombok adalah pulau yang dikenal memiliki bermacam - macam pantai yang sangat indah. Gue rasa semua orang tau ya, karena belakangan ini lombok lagi membuming di dunia wisata.

Selain punya beraneka ragam pantai yang indah, lombok juga memiliki tempat - tempat indah yang bisa kamu kunjungi, salah satunya itu adalah Sembalun.

Sembalun sendiri berada di sisi timur Gunung Rinjani, tepatnya di wilayah Kabupaten Lombok Timur. Untuk mencapai sembalun sendiri terbilang mudah ya, karena hanya membutuhkan waktu kurang lebih 2 jam. Akan tetapi kalian harus memperhatikan kondisi kendaraan kalian, karena jalan yang dijumpai tanjakan-tanjakan terjal.

Tapi jangan takut, semua akan terbayarkan setelah kalian mencapai puncak sembalun, karena kalian akan di suguhi pemandangan yang luar biasa indah.

Saat gue tiba di sembalun, cuaca saat itu gerimis, jadi keadaan di situ sangat berkabut dan sangat sepi. Biasanya di puncak sembalun sendiri sangat ramai oleh pendatang lokal maupun internasional. Kalian juga bisa menikmati keindahan sembalun dengan memakan ataupun meminum - minuman hangat yang sudah di sediakan oleh penjual yang ada disana.

Dan gak lupa juga gue mengabadikan foto untuk kenang - kenangan atau sekedar ber- alay ria hehe. Biasanya sih kalian akan menemukan Monyet - monyet yang menyerupai gue, eh salah, maksud gue monyet - monyet liar yang bisa kalian beri makan atau sekedar berfoto dan membandingkan mirip ga sih sama lo hehe.

Dan jangan lupa setelah kalian turun dari sembalun, kalian juga bisa menikmati dan memetik buah strawberry sendiri, asik kan bisa memetik dan menikmati langsung buahnya seperti di harvest moon.

Jadi jangan lupa untuk mengunjungi sembalun ketika kalian berada di lombok, di jamin ga nyesel guys :) ya kali aja kalian nemu jodoh di sini kaya di tipi tipi gitu hehe.

Dan ini beberapa foto yang bisa gue share buat kalian. Sorry ya kalo hasil jepretan-nya kurang memuaskan, karena make kamera HP :P

Good morning, fellas! :D How are you? What did you do today? Did you have fun? Glad a lot of you had fun today :D Beberapa hari yang lalu gue sempat mendapatkan kabar yang cukup bahagia, sebab ayu ting ting di kabarkan akan bercerai dengan suaminya yaitu enji ~~si manusia botak~~ . Loh kok bahagia buat gue? Ya, iya lah bahagia, kalo ayu ting ting cere-kan masih ada gue yang siap nerima *oke ini kebohongan belaka.

Halo apa kabar? gue baru bisa nulis lagi nih, setelah beberapa bulan sempat vakum. By the way gue mau sedikit cerita nih, selama gue ga ngeblog, banyak sekali kejadian - kejadian di sekitar gue yang memprihatinkan. Yah salah satunya masalah cinta.

Kalo kita ngomongin masalah cinta itu sendiri ga bakal ada habisnya ya, dimana selalu ada kejadian - kejadian di setiap kisahnya. Bahagia,senang, sedih,bimbang (bahasa gaul sekarang galau), bahkan perasaan nahan pup pun ada.

STEFAY'S

BLACK

LOVE IS NOT A RELATIONSHIP

Sembalun

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